Many of us have fallen in love and have these amazing relationship phases where we have done so much for our partner just to show our affection and love to them. Well, it is good to fall in love and also be in a relationship, but sometimes there are situations where you are blinded by love so much that you don’t even know your guy is using you for his personal pleasures.
It happens! Many times you fail to see the red flags in your relationship and you endlessly do things without even knowing that your guy is not interested in you and he is just with you because you are just a profit item for him. Confused? Doubtful? Well, there are 7 signs that will totally prove whether he is using you or not.
Read through and see for yourself if any of these signs match.
1) He Does Not Talk About Commitments
If you are in a relationship for a pretty long time and if you have desires to spend your future with him, then you should talk to him about it. If your guy in anyway avoids talking about it to you then there are chances he is ignoring your future and he is simply not interested in being committed to you. This a big red flag in your relationship if he doesn’t talk or discuss about a future of the two of you together.
2) He Does Not Care About Your Feelings
Guys can be selfish and if that is the case in your relationship then its time to put a full stop to it. If he constantly makes you upset, and does not care about the way you feel if you are low then this is a sign he is just using you for his motive. He will at any cost lookout for himself even if it means to hurt your feelings in anyway.
3) He Is Financially Dependent On You
This is a very common sign that can be triggered in your relationship. If your guy is not serious in life and does not want to take up responsibility then there is no chance that the two of you can live together. It is because he is all grown up and you also have so much on your plate, so how the f**k can you support him when he doesnt get his act together?
4) He Is Selfish During Intimacy
Intimacy takes place two-way. There is a connection, a bond while you are making love. It should not be self pleasing only one person. This is a huge red flag if your guy expects you to satisfy him and he does not even bother to cater to your needs and desire when you are in the bedroom. Think about it. His intentions are clear, he just wants pleasure!
5) He Refuses You To Meet His Friends Or Family
If you are in relationship with a guy and if he refuses you to introduce you to his friends and family then it is not worth being with him! He is simply using you and this is again a red flag for you because he always wants to keep you a secret in his life! A proud guy will always show you off like a queen and would never push you away from his personal life.
6) You Don’t Know Him At All
Sometimes it is important to know what is likes and dislikes and same goes vice versa. There are times when your guy doesnt even wana share anything personal about his life. Don’t skip to the physical phase! First try getting to know him really well. If he still does not share, then this is a high alert sign for you to not be with him!
7) He Has Someone Else Apart From You
One of the most alarming and commons sings you should know if he is cheating on you. You never know because you are so blinded by his love, you will never see what he is doing behind your back! If he has someone else in his life to whom he keeps talking or you notice weird behaviors then its time to call it off!
