In India we follow this traditional culture of meeting the family, if you are having an arranged marriage! So, even though first meeting is like a date but, its much more than that. You need to actually decide whether your partner is compatible for you and do you see the potential in him.
So, even though you feel totally paranoid, its normal to feel that way! Because you actually don’t know what to ask him and decide in one go if you want to spend the rest of your life with them. So how would you analyze that?! Don’t worry we have got you covered, as there are some questions that can actually tell you so much about your partner.
When you are meeting someone for the rishta paka meeting you need to ask some intense questions that will prove what kind of a person he is!
So, scroll through and checkout some of the amazing questions you must ask him at your first meeting.
1) 5 years from now, where do you see yourself?
Though this might sound like a job interview question, make sure you ask him this. Knowing his future plans can tell you so much about what he proposes to do in his life, if he wants you to be part of his journey.
2) Do you like to travel?
3) Tell me something about your best friends?
Discussing about his personal life can be intriguing and knowing about his best friends can give you more space in knowing more about him. This will help you in analyzing what kind of people he is comfortable with. A mixture of good qualities and support from friends is always good. So take interest in knowing him.
4) Whom you are close to in your family?
We all have that one person whom we are close to in our family. It can be our mother, our father, brother or sister. So, ask him this to know who knows him super well. His lifeline means alot to you! Remember that.
5) Have you ever lived independently?
This question will help you in knowing how he manages his time and things. Is he good at managing everything by himself? Well, then you are blessed to have him in your life, as he can actually help you in the household chores.
6) What do you think will be your routine after marriage?
This question will actually give you the direct answer as to what will be his work timings, his priorities his interest and you will know if he is the perfect partner for you! If you both have common interests then you are sure going to fit in well.
7) What is that one thing you would never compromise on?
This is yet another important question that you must ask him, to know what is that one thing he would never compromise on. There are some rules everyone as an individual has, so make sure you are also clear about it in the beginning to make your life journey smooth.
